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Post by Miss You sisters on Jan 6, 2006 15:54:39 GMT -5
Intika I get now that you were trying to imply but as far as I am concerned you probably know nada from a long period.You have shared your joys about the topics you discussed and then suddenly express how you felt towards that person.It's like dropping a nuclear bomb on top of your head thats how nada felt and it's a horrible experience coz I have been through it.You seem like a mature person and could you please in future if I or any other member post a reply that provokes ya point it out for us immediately, so that we can know where we went wrong. Have a nice weekend!! Nada:Even if I look upon the dictionary all the words won't be enough to describe ya and I mean it!Thank you for that amazing email that even made my mom tear up and she sends you her greetings.  Rachel, i'm glad you got what i meant and you seem mature too but that's not the first time i make this remark to Nada. I Don't see why it would be a shock because i didn't say anything outrageous in my opinion and Nada herself recognises that she doesn't decorate her words... |
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Post by Miss You sisters on Jan 6, 2006 16:03:11 GMT -5
hey guys, begad this will lead nowhere  just 4get about it..   intika, if u knew nada more, believe me u'll find her really nice, cool and very friendly  and nada, as they said, if u got upset that wasn't their intention at all ;D i would have definitely felt the same if i were in ur shoes bas 7'alas im sure they didnt mean it yalla every1, PEACE OUT!  and thanks intika 4 ur nice comment abt me  and nada u rock girl Karen, thank you so much for your peaceful reply! and you're welcome. |
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Post by Miss You sisters on Jan 6, 2006 16:06:09 GMT -5
Poster Girl: Intika just said her opinion, that she agrees with Silverwing... And she never means to attack you, as she said. Be sure, she said that because she likes you and she cares about you... Just like what Karen, Rechel, summy and all your fans do... And she never ever means any harm.... If you noticed that she even didn't reply to the guest, and that absolutely explains that she's a high class, so she just wanted to advice you... She's perfect and you know that she doesn't talk behind your back... And you have to respect her opinion, as well... Intikaaaa: everything is fine... Don't worry about that sweetheart... just Cheer up! Zahoora, thank you so much for understanding my intentions and for the sweet things you said. I know that you only meant to help by your message and you didn't mean it against anybody. You're the sweetest. |
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Post by Miss You sisters on Jan 6, 2006 16:41:31 GMT -5
Zahraa well what I m gonna say will probably seem mean to u(but since everything else I said is mean to u and to ur friends so no problem!! ;D)but It's a feeling not more not less..The first second I read ur name I knew that ur gonna defend intika!hmm u do that everywhere eles eand in every singls thread and that's cool. I dun find any problem in this 5ales!but what's funny is that ur telling me *the mean/violent/rude* member to respect her opinion and telling her to cheer up and not let me *the hater in the game* affect her or watever ur words mean well that's like made me giggle!who is accusing who?and who should be sad so that u will tell them to cheer up!It's like that in the court some lawyer starts defending the Judge instead of defending the people that are involved in the case!!It's funny how ppl wanna compliment others without even realising how funny they may seem..and I hope from God that Karen,Rachel,Hamsa said what they said not cos they love me but cos it's what they think it's the truth..according to them..well I don't have any fans here ms Zahraa..I only have friends! Please show me the threads where Zahraa was defending me. She doesn't need to defend me. Simply because i rarely get into arguments and i can defend myself very well. Maybe you're referring to the threads where Zahraa agreed with me on certain things. 3adi, she is not the first or the last one who agreed with me on something. And please don't put words in our mouths, that's called spin. None of us here either tried to portray you or said that you were mean, violent or rude. This is an open forum, your comments are readily available for anybody to see and they can make their own opinions. And by the way, knowing Zahraa, i am certain that when she told me to cheer up it had nothing to do with you. She said it because she thought that i may be upset ( which i'm not)because i was misunderstood not because i was victimised or something. And frankly, i found your answer to her way too exagerated! You took everything so litteraly and out of context. I didn't blame your friends ( And i don't mean Karen) for telling me how great you are , although i never said the contrary. And i don't know what you meant by this comment below: It's funny how ppl wanna compliment others without even realising how funny they may seem.. |
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Post by zahraa on Jan 6, 2006 17:30:40 GMT -5
Zahraa well what I m gonna say will probably seem mean to u(but since everything else I said is mean to u and to ur friends so no problem!! ;D)but It's a feeling not more not less..The first second I read ur name I knew that ur gonna defend intika!hmm u do that everywhere eles eand in every singls thread and that's cool. I dun find any problem in this 5ales!but what's funny is that ur telling me *the mean/violent/rude* member to respect her opinion and telling her to cheer up and not let me *the hater in the game* affect her or watever ur words mean well that's like made me giggle!who is accusing who?and who should be sad so that u will tell them to cheer up!It's like that in the court some lawyer starts defending the Judge instead of defending the people that are involved in the case!!It's funny how ppl wanna compliment others without even realising how funny they may seem..and I hope from God that Karen,Rachel,Hamsa said what they said not cos they love me but cos it's what they think it's the truth..according to them..well I don't have any fans here ms Zahraa..I only have friends! PosterGirl, I'm a very peaceful person and I don't wanna let myself into a trouble or something... If you don't agree with what I say, then ignore my post... Or say something that make sense... I read all your post, and I actually found it pointless, What do you mean, by I'm defending Intika? Well, I guess you have many friends too and they DID DEFEND you in this thread Karen, Summy and Rechel did... Yes I do want Intika to cheer up cause I don't want her to be upset, just like what she said... And I don't think that it's shame to tell her that... Well, okay you hope that karen, rechel and summy said what they said, cause they love you... Well, I told Intika to cheer up cause I love her too, and I didn't say that you have to agree with her, I just said you have to respect her opinion... Like she does, and like I did! I didn't say anything that is bad or harm in my post... By the way, say what ever you like, you think that I'm funny... It's your opinon, and I respect it. |
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Post by zahraa on Jan 6, 2006 17:39:48 GMT -5
Zahraa well what I m gonna say will probably seem mean to u(but since everything else I said is mean to u and to ur friends so no problem!! ;D)but It's a feeling not more not less..The first second I read ur name I knew that ur gonna defend intika!hmm u do that everywhere eles eand in every singls thread and that's cool. I dun find any problem in this 5ales!but what's funny is that ur telling me *the mean/violent/rude* member to respect her opinion and telling her to cheer up and not let me *the hater in the game* affect her or watever ur words mean well that's like made me giggle!who is accusing who?and who should be sad so that u will tell them to cheer up!It's like that in the court some lawyer starts defending the Judge instead of defending the people that are involved in the case!!It's funny how ppl wanna compliment others without even realising how funny they may seem..and I hope from God that Karen,Rachel,Hamsa said what they said not cos they love me but cos it's what they think it's the truth..according to them..well I don't have any fans here ms Zahraa..I only have friends! Please show me the threads where Zahraa was defending me. She doesn't need to defend me. Simply because i rarely get into arguments and i can defend myself very well. Maybe you're referring to the threads where Zahraa agreed with me on certain things. 3adi, she is not the first or the last one who agreed with me on something. And please don't put words in our mouths, that's called spin. None of us here either tried to portray you or said that you were mean, violent or rude. This is an open forum, your comments are readily available for anybody to see and they can make their own opinions. And by the way, knowing Zahraa, i am certain that when she told me to cheer up it had nothing to do with you. She said it because she thought that i may be upset ( which i'm not)because i was misunderstood not because i was victimised or something. And frankly, i found your answer to her way too exagerated! You took everything so litteraly and out of context. I didn't blame your friends ( And i don't mean Karen) for telling me how great you are , although i never said the contrary. And i don't know what you meant by this comment below: It's funny how ppl wanna compliment others without even realising how funny they may seem.. I totally agree... I don't need to defend you, cause you're very smart, and you know how to defend yourself... |
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Post by zahraa on Jan 6, 2006 17:42:49 GMT -5
Poster Girl: Intika just said her opinion, that she agrees with Silverwing... And she never means to attack you, as she said. Be sure, she said that because she likes you and she cares about you... Just like what Karen, Rechel, summy and all your fans do... And she never ever means any harm.... If you noticed that she even didn't reply to the guest, and that absolutely explains that she's a high class, so she just wanted to advice you... She's perfect and you know that she doesn't talk behind your back... And you have to respect her opinion, as well... Intikaaaa: everything is fine... Don't worry about that sweetheart... just Cheer up! Zahoora, thank you so much for understanding my intentions and for the sweet things you said. I know that you only meant to help by your message and you didn't mean it against anybody. You're the sweetest. I'm the one who should thank you for understanding my post too... And you're the BEST! |
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Post by Zed on Jan 6, 2006 22:12:21 GMT -5
YOU KNOW THIS TOPIC WAS ABOUT HAITHAM AND LOOK WHAT YOU GUYS ARE TALKING ABOUT NOW???
THE Q IS :HOW DID HAITHAM LEAVE??
NOT FAIR
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Post by hind on Jan 6, 2006 22:24:37 GMT -5
YOU KNOW THIS TOPIC WAS ABOUT HAITHAM AND LOOK WHAT YOU GUYS ARE TALKING ABOUT NOW??? THE Q IS :HOW DID HAITHAM LEAVE?? NOT FAIR 5alas ya 3am what do you want us to do so you can feel batter take shahd out and bring him back? |
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Post by Karen--YEHYAAA on Jan 7, 2006 6:17:34 GMT -5
well nada, akeed wut i said is the truth, its not just coz i love u.. as i ve said b4 we've been friends since a very long time n i know u very well, and i also know u dont say bad stuff about other candidates as they said, and thats y i defended u.. and im sure thats wut hamsa and rachel did too.. its coz we r ur friends, we couldnt stop ourselves from not replying and yes we were DEFENDING u with the truth and believe me, if wut has been said here about u is true, i would have told u i agree with them, coz im ur friend and i wish u the best.. bas simply i disagreed with them when they said that about u so thats y i defended u... yalla anyways, u guys r rly goin off topic.. NO MORE REPLIES AFTER MINE PLZZZZ!!!!!! |
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Post by NadoZ on Jan 7, 2006 6:40:57 GMT -5
Ok I m making ONE LAST post in this thread..and I m going to make it so objective and I m gonna make sure I won't let anyone piss me off like I was yesterday!
1-Silverwing:well I'd make you a seperate comment cos you started the whole thing made a few comments and then stepped away..well I got ur point!!I considered it!!and I still respect you..and it was extremely amazing that cos of ur simple statement I discovered many things about many people here..well if u noticed I answered u normally in the starac 3 section..and I m not dumb to poudure cos of some criticizm..what will change is that I treated you before like someone who got the idea as someone that knows me and that can understand what I mean but not anymore..but it's all good!
2-Back to our topic!hmm I wasn't really pissed/upset/hurt..watever u wanna call it practically til Zahraa's reply...cos while everyone else was criticizing me they still respected me...But I found her reply disrespectful for me!well Intika and everyone else..imagine ur nada and rerad the reply and trust me you will understand what I m talking about *you won't admit it I know* cos since the thread's orientataion is going to the path that I suck it will remain the same way no matter what may happen...well I m not speaking of her intentions!not at all!I m speaking about what I saw and read..well reading her reply reminded me of a funny situation..it's like when someone starts kicking someone and hitting them and watever and then a third person gets in and tells the one that was kicking awww 'I m sorry you hurt yourslef' and ignoring the one that is effectively hurt!! I know friendship is a privilege and it's abnormal you'lltreat your close friends like everyone else..But I find it soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo mean * a lot more mean than all my comments added together* to treat someone as if they were a low creature just to compliment someone else...You can think she's the best put that in ur personnal msg mention it in every single thread it's SO alright but when you wanna make a provoking comment dun expect me to shut up and not stand and defend my pride!!and I m soooooooooo sorry for upsetting intika by defending myself!!it's so worth hating myself for the rest of my life..but all her accusations to me aren't worth me feeling a lil sorry ..I should respect her opinion abouit myself and even thank her for not accepting me!Oh well I love the theory!
3-Zahraa I m not sure if my words are so clear when I m pissed but I guess they are now!!!Go read what I said..I said that I hope that what Karen and Hamsa and Rachel said was not cos they love but because it's what they thought was right..cos otherwise it's gonne be even more depressive..and yeah it's always amazing to defend ur friends!!But if you do this without thinking if they deserve being defended or no it's what I call hypocrisy!
4-I think it's my right to speak and to express myslef whether I like ur opinion or not!!so dun use this technique with me!s/p cos this thread is pretty much about me *and Haytham a lil bit lol*
5-Rachel thank ur mom for me..and tell her happy late holidays *mwahs*
6-Intika what I meant is that some people just want to defend and to be nice to some people even if this will make them look so funny..cos they use words that are inapproproate for the situation
7-well that's a very important point..I know I speak a lot and defend myslef to the maximum..but when I end a topic I dun end it having much hatred in ma heart...I just take my revenge and go with a clear conscienec..so I wun have anything against anyone whp posted here..
8- I think the thread is over at least for me..I wun answer until I find an important thing to add!or until a new person comes and adds a anew perspective to the thread!!
9-well Intika you've always had problems in understand me..i a lot of previous threads..you always got my quote the wrong way..I guess that maybe is the reason why u think my comments are harsh maybe cos u dun get what I mean..It's not a matter o intelligeance it's a matter of chemistry...and that abscene of chemistry doesn't mean that someone is better than the other..I totally disgaree with the saying 'great minds think alike' we can both be great *or the opposite* and think in really different ways!
Thanks again!
Bye!
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Post by SilverWing on Jan 7, 2006 10:40:50 GMT -5
 I was away for a couple of days and back to find all those posts in here!! I’m sorry poster girl, I feel guilty for all this. I admit I was really wrong to say whatever I said in this thread, I guess the comparison wasnt needed at all, I have posted it in the wrong place for sure. But would u believe me if I said that I did NOT read the post that was attaching Ziyad. I didn’t pay attention to the F word and when u defended him and got mad, I replied to only that without knowing what exactly u were against, I just assumed u were upset coz someone said that they dont like Ziyad and just attacked him 3adi, didn’t put in mind u were mad coz of the F word........After u replied to me, I went back to read it. So when I posted my reply I didn’t mean that u use that word and I did mention that u're just quite harsh in ur criticism, that doesn’t mean that u're impolite or rude, NOT AT ALL. I mean my best friend can be soooooooooo harsh at ppl and just goes ahead and tells them u are so and so in their faces, would that make me hate her or makes her a bad person? No, I LOOOOOOVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEE her to the max, but I'm ONLY against the way she criticizes ppl and I tell her so. I like u so very much, maybe u and king are the most ppl I like in this forum (not to forget my lovely shyfluffy  ). Its true I don’t know anything about u out of this forum, but I do like u be sure of that. To Rachel, Karen and hamsa, u all went on telling me how a good person nada is, I didnt mention anything about her personality I didnt come close to that, she seems like a very nice person and a veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery funny one too and me saying she's harsh doesnt make her a bad person. I hope u all understood what I said and plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz no hard feelings. P.S: Poster girl, I didnt run away from this post, I was away from the net for a couple of days like I mentioned above  Peace
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Post by zahraa on Jan 7, 2006 13:33:04 GMT -5
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Post by Miss You sisters on Jan 7, 2006 20:53:00 GMT -5
I totally agree... I don't need to defend you, cause you're very smart, and you know how to defend yourself... Merci, Zahoora. And so are you! I told you that before. I'm the one who should thank you for understanding my post too... And you're the BEST! No, you shouldn't thank me. You're the one who was trying to help. I'm so sorry you got involved in this. I know that you responded with the best intentions and you didn't mean to offend anyone. I really appreciate it , and i love you and don't want you to feel like you did something wrong or be hurt! |
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Post by Miss You sisters on Jan 8, 2006 22:59:07 GMT -5
OK, Nada, i was going to answer this yesterday but i was really busy and tired and didn't want to give you a quick reply. Let me start with Zahraa, it's not that i don't want to admit it, as you said, but it's that I'm 100 % convinced of what i told you before. I know her well enough to know that she answered with the best intentions in mind. And when she told me to cheer up, it had absolutely nothing to do with you. She tells me things like that often in different situations when we pm each other. She is one of the purest people i know and that's the reason she is my friend. So that's why i found your reaction to her post completely exaggerated and hurtful.
As for me not understanding you, yes, there were probably situations when i didn't understand you , just like you are insisting on misunderstanding me by saying that the theme of the thread is that 'you ''suck'' or something like that. That's something we never said or even implied. I keep explaining to you that I'm not criticizing you as a person but it's just that i find some of your comments too strident. I felt like telling you that, and I'm not going to change my comments or apologize for my opinion... but if i upset you, i do apologize for that. Because as i said before, my intention wasn't to attack you or hurt you in any way. And let me make this clear for the last time, if i didn't respect you or didn't like you, i wouldn't have bothered to tell you what i said, and i would've ended the discussion a long time ago. So i don't know if it's about chemistry but it's certainly about style, we just have different styles. And i don't believe in that saying either, i think it's more like: Great minds don't necessarily think alike. Hopefully this will be my last reply to this subject...
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I was away for a couple of days and back to find all those posts in here!! I’m sorry poster girl, I feel guilty for all this. 
). Its true I don’t know anything about u out of this forum, but I do like u be sure of that.
