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Post by lina on May 25, 2004 12:21:45 GMT -5
ok guys im 25 yrs old girl from middle east i live in canada i been here for about 15yrs now...and i live with my parents as usuall so nowi met this guy his name is tony he is italian and he is 31 yrs old and he is married well they seperate but technically they live together cause they have 2 kids but he always tell me he isn't attracted to her and he is not in love with her any more i know i got no future with this guy but he is so handsome and heis so rich and sexy so i know himf or 2 years but on this weekend we got intimate i mean we never had sex but we were kissing and fooling around ....and then i left ...late on i text message him but he never replied to my message and he hasn't called me .......  i mean what happen here did i do something he seemed so into me ...what should i do |
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Post by just a mom on May 25, 2004 16:30:17 GMT -5
I read ur message, I am a mom of a 24 years girl too. We live in Canada, Ontario also. I am not gona say that what u did was wrong from the begening. U knew he's married even he's seperated from his wife, still he lives with her and he's still married to her, right? so even though he told you he's not in love with her or what ever he thinks, he's lying. I know Italian guys are cute and to be more frank..maybe hot.. and i know every girl might fall in love with them cuz of the look.. or the way they talk.. seductive.. but as a lebanese girl or any arabic girl we have our culture, our conservative attitude. religion. i dont know what religion urs is, but i think in general as a girl u should be more carefull about picking ur friends.. men want sex.. especially when it comes from a married man..unless u wana make a relation with him..just body relation.. cuz u know he's not gona marry you at all.. so my girl.. even if u love him..it's ok just stay away from him.. u will never regret it.. u would regret it if u keep on seing him and sleep with him.. he wont reply to ur message unless u agree to have sex with him..then he will see u but after that he'll let u feel ur nothing ..just as the other girls who just run after men for body attraction.
and i m sure that u didnt tell ur mom or anyone in the family about him or what it had happened between u too..
if u have any think u like to discuss ya lina just talk to me..i have kids..and i was in ur age b4..so i know how girls think..
my advice is to stay away from him or any other married men..they are hopeless case..so why bother???
i bet ur pretty and cute girl.. dont waste ur time with carbage.. u will find a nice man who will respect u for urself and ur personality not for ur body welazi minno... inshallah u will find that guy and u will get married and have kids..and then u will remember our little messages.. good luck lina dear..anytime u need anything just post it here..and i will be glad to reply as soon as i read it.. yallah bye habibte
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Post by ~arabiangal~ on May 25, 2004 18:53:20 GMT -5
hey lina i read ur story,and as just a mom said ,u should lie him,he is not worth it,like he did with his wife,he might do to,he might marry u but than after a few years divorce u,dont go for married man.i bet in canada ther many arab guyz ,u will apprieceate u, dont let urself down,and be patience ,even if mr right doesnt appear now,just be patience one day he will come,and u r just 25 u r still young dear,enjoy life,dont rush to unneccesary commintment
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Post by missboy on Jun 26, 2004 1:35:03 GMT -5
Me read and felt so bad? I am a man like any other man in the world n don't really like what other men like to do with girls? they think they are like fish, just for honting and may be eat or not. Hope all girls be aware that, there are no men on earth desrve a kiss from a beautiful girl or mom, unless he show's enough respect and carring to girl or mom he love's. There are just view truely love stories which end happily and it is becomeing very rare and a beautiful girl like you lina and from arabian cultural, your love life shouldn't be adventure for some men. So I advice you kik the guy away from your life and get started as frish ok! I am glade to read other messages from arabiangal, and the other lady forgetten her nick name and Lina and others I would put my email perhaps you feel liking talking or anything ok axx911 at hotmail.com
it is me missboy/ saud
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Post by hi on Jun 28, 2004 12:38:58 GMT -5
lina this is what i think u should do u should stop going out with him fist coz his older than u and his marrid and he have kids and him bein hansome and sexy have nothin to do with love i mean if u dont love but u think his handsome then u should really stop going out with him   well i feel sorry for his wife and kids he probabaly just used his wife and he mite use u too and about the message he probabaly thought that its a bit too much because he have kids and wife!! ur helper |
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Post by canhelp on Sept 17, 2004 15:48:54 GMT -5
hi lina i might help but can i ask u from which country you are from ? thanx  |
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Post by iSamoora- Maghraby ❤ on Sept 18, 2004 21:24:52 GMT -5
hey lina! although u said u hate me on another topic but oh well i just wanna help u!
i think u should 4get about this guy cuz if he never answered ur messages then he doesn't really care about u! and i think that all he wanted was being with u(sleeping) and he is already married and even if his first marriage didn't work out u should consider his wife and kids! it's gonna be a big wall between u two!! i think u should 4get about him and wait for ur "naseeb"!
God bless u!
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