Post by ~arabiangal~ on Jun 18, 2005 12:44:19 GMT -5
WHO REKINDLES YOUR LIGHT?
Our world is groping its way through a complex and difficult
time. We are in grief and pain. Some of us may feel as if our
light has gone out.
An insightful woman, who had lived through numerous dark nights
and days, once taught me about getting through difficult times.
"I appreciate your outlook on life," I commented to Mrs. Tucker.
I was in my twenties and she was fifty years my senior. She
exhibited a remarkable attitude and strength of character, which
had probably carried her through those painful experiences.
"Well, I have been through a lot of tough times," she told me.
"In fact, sometimes it was awfully hard for me and my husband. He
couldn't always find work. Some days he would come home horribly
depressed and say, 'Things are so bad I don't know if I can take
it.' And I would say to him, 'Well, you know, things could be
worse.' And once he said, 'I've heard that so many times I think
I'm gonna die!' I was hurt...but I just hated to see him so
depressed. I didn't know what to say. Later he confessed that if
I would have wept in despair, he wouldn't have been able to
make it. He needed me during those times."
Over the years, it has occurred to me that HOW she responded to
her husband's pain was probably not as important as the simple
fact that she was there and cared. He knew he could always count
on her to be a ray of light in his darkness and a strong hand to
lift him when he stumbled or to soothe his hurts. He needed
her...and for similar reasons, she needed him, too.
Albert Schweitzer said so well, "Sometimes our light goes out but
is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes
deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light." During
those difficult times they rekindled one another's light.
Who rekindles your light? Who blows your light into flame when it
threatens to flicker out? Sometimes this person is a relative,
sometimes a teacher, or a minister, or a special friend. If you
need the light of your spirit rekindled during this bleak time,
there are those who will listen and care.
Likewise, a great and wonderful gift you can give is to fan into
flame the spirit that is in another. Rekindling someone's flame
is an important task we perform, for few of us can go it all
alone.
The greatest weapon against darkness is, and always has been
light. Even one small light is stronger than the darkness.
© 2001 Steve Goodier
Our world is groping its way through a complex and difficult
time. We are in grief and pain. Some of us may feel as if our
light has gone out.
An insightful woman, who had lived through numerous dark nights
and days, once taught me about getting through difficult times.
"I appreciate your outlook on life," I commented to Mrs. Tucker.
I was in my twenties and she was fifty years my senior. She
exhibited a remarkable attitude and strength of character, which
had probably carried her through those painful experiences.
"Well, I have been through a lot of tough times," she told me.
"In fact, sometimes it was awfully hard for me and my husband. He
couldn't always find work. Some days he would come home horribly
depressed and say, 'Things are so bad I don't know if I can take
it.' And I would say to him, 'Well, you know, things could be
worse.' And once he said, 'I've heard that so many times I think
I'm gonna die!' I was hurt...but I just hated to see him so
depressed. I didn't know what to say. Later he confessed that if
I would have wept in despair, he wouldn't have been able to
make it. He needed me during those times."
Over the years, it has occurred to me that HOW she responded to
her husband's pain was probably not as important as the simple
fact that she was there and cared. He knew he could always count
on her to be a ray of light in his darkness and a strong hand to
lift him when he stumbled or to soothe his hurts. He needed
her...and for similar reasons, she needed him, too.
Albert Schweitzer said so well, "Sometimes our light goes out but
is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes
deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light." During
those difficult times they rekindled one another's light.
Who rekindles your light? Who blows your light into flame when it
threatens to flicker out? Sometimes this person is a relative,
sometimes a teacher, or a minister, or a special friend. If you
need the light of your spirit rekindled during this bleak time,
there are those who will listen and care.
Likewise, a great and wonderful gift you can give is to fan into
flame the spirit that is in another. Rekindling someone's flame
is an important task we perform, for few of us can go it all
alone.
The greatest weapon against darkness is, and always has been
light. Even one small light is stronger than the darkness.
© 2001 Steve Goodier
