Post by ~arabiangal~ on Jun 18, 2005 12:48:25 GMT -5
HOW TO GET THE ONE YOU REALLY LIKE
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by Sarah Paul
People in general want what they can't have rather than what is
easy for them to get. Have you ever noticed that men are more
attracted to elusive, hard-to-get women, than those who shower them
with eagerness and availability? You will find that time and time
again, men go out with women who aren't easily open to them and who
preserve an air of mystique.
What men really want is a woman who stimulates their romantic and
sexual imagination. This type of woman knows how to assert herself;
is not a pushover and still knows how to make a man laugh and
treats him with respect. Most importantly, she has an element of
mystery about her, and that is why men want to pursue her. She has
high self-esteem and is not afraid of the risk involved in
flirting. She is hard to get without being unattainable.
MEN ARE ATTRACTED TO THE CHASE
If you really like someone, don't shower him with too much
affection. Use moderation. Find a way to exhibit your self-esteem,
make them laugh, and never seem as if you need them. You need to
become a challenge to them, not a pushover. Men love women that
they can pursue.
One quick way to improve your self-esteem is to always look your
best. If you can't afford to buy new clothes, then at least do your
best to keep in shape and well groomed. Remember that life isn't
fair. While you may not see it as a priority, other girls are out
there buying a new dress every week, looking their best, and
attracting gorgeous guys.
BE FUNNY
Another great way to improve your self-esteem and entertain those
around you is to have a great sense of humor.
One minute of laughter relaxes us for up to 45 minutes! Both
laughter and smiles release "happy" hormones into the bloodstream.
Men listen longer, talk longer, and feel warmer and friendlier
towards women who inspire this feeling. In my book "How to be
Irresistible to Men" I have written a chapter dealing specifically
with how to be funny, and how you can further develop your own
unique sense of humor.
HAVE A LIFE
To get the man you've always liked, the most important secrets are
to:
Always look your best.
Make him laugh.
Become a challenge (not a pushover).
Have goals and aspirations that you are working towards.
If you can adopt these attitudes, you are well on your way to
further success with every man that you meet.
An extremely important way to become irresistible to men is to
become a master of self-expressive love. Details about this and
lmuch, much more indispensable knowledge--such as why men need to
feel successful--is contained in my book "How to be Irresistible to
Men."
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by Sarah Paul
People in general want what they can't have rather than what is
easy for them to get. Have you ever noticed that men are more
attracted to elusive, hard-to-get women, than those who shower them
with eagerness and availability? You will find that time and time
again, men go out with women who aren't easily open to them and who
preserve an air of mystique.
What men really want is a woman who stimulates their romantic and
sexual imagination. This type of woman knows how to assert herself;
is not a pushover and still knows how to make a man laugh and
treats him with respect. Most importantly, she has an element of
mystery about her, and that is why men want to pursue her. She has
high self-esteem and is not afraid of the risk involved in
flirting. She is hard to get without being unattainable.
MEN ARE ATTRACTED TO THE CHASE
If you really like someone, don't shower him with too much
affection. Use moderation. Find a way to exhibit your self-esteem,
make them laugh, and never seem as if you need them. You need to
become a challenge to them, not a pushover. Men love women that
they can pursue.
One quick way to improve your self-esteem is to always look your
best. If you can't afford to buy new clothes, then at least do your
best to keep in shape and well groomed. Remember that life isn't
fair. While you may not see it as a priority, other girls are out
there buying a new dress every week, looking their best, and
attracting gorgeous guys.
BE FUNNY
Another great way to improve your self-esteem and entertain those
around you is to have a great sense of humor.
One minute of laughter relaxes us for up to 45 minutes! Both
laughter and smiles release "happy" hormones into the bloodstream.
Men listen longer, talk longer, and feel warmer and friendlier
towards women who inspire this feeling. In my book "How to be
Irresistible to Men" I have written a chapter dealing specifically
with how to be funny, and how you can further develop your own
unique sense of humor.
HAVE A LIFE
To get the man you've always liked, the most important secrets are
to:
Always look your best.
Make him laugh.
Become a challenge (not a pushover).
Have goals and aspirations that you are working towards.
If you can adopt these attitudes, you are well on your way to
further success with every man that you meet.
An extremely important way to become irresistible to men is to
become a master of self-expressive love. Details about this and
lmuch, much more indispensable knowledge--such as why men need to
feel successful--is contained in my book "How to be Irresistible to
Men."
