can someone tell me what to do!

[dina]

salam to all!

I have problems and i dont know what to do,
first i want tell who something bout myself:

Im 23 years old girl living in germany originally im from syria.

I know a guy we know us since more than 2 years, and we love us much ,everything is really nice, but the problem is or are that he is tunisian and lives there , i knew him bye internet and we talked much and we really understand so good than we decide to meet us, and we meet us in syria (i travel with my dad to syria )and we was more in love it was like we imagine , so he called my dad and spoke with him bout us and that he wants marry me, but you can imagine what happened, first my dad was diplomatic he meets him and talked to him and even with his parents and all seemed to be ok and i was so happy, he even take the house of in tunisia, he told his famiy that he will call back and than they speak again,but after we was in germany again, all was over, he was angry and told me to forget this guy and and and... but i cant we speak everyday and we love us he everything possible to come to germany, but i know my dad will never accept him cause cause he is tunsi, after syria, my parents fight really always :'(and yesterday it was so bad that they though bout divorce, my dad is so hard,not in the religion , i would be happy if he was religious , i dont know what to do now

[attia_lover]

i think that you should sit down with your dad and talk honestly and try to come to a situation that satisfies both of you........

tell him the good points about the man and try to explain why u should live the rest of your life with this man......

i don't know what else to say other than good luck and i hope that some of the members here can help you or come up with other ideas.....

i hope that i helped u

[Bi$ho_my_Luv]

wow, what a situation!
really have no idea but do what attia_lover said. she ALWAYS has good advice. believe me i no.

[dina]

yes its really bad, i was thinking to leave my family and go to him,but i cant do it, i just have to wait,i hope that he will come to germany and try to study here than my dad will see that this loves me , now i will tell him thats over,with me and him,but its not over,than inshallah when he have the chance to come to germany and find a life here,(you now how hard that is) than he will call my dad and tell him that i couldnt forget your daughter,that i do the everything possible that they accept me, than i hope my dad will give him a chance to know him and his family better and you know us arabs we always make everything complicated ::)like we have to ask bout the sabe3 jdid , but i think its the only chance i have, or i really have to leave here,but i cant. I love my parents and they love me so much,and i have a brother and a sister my sister is just one year younger she would have much problems , so now this is the plan , inshallah ya rab he succeed and comes to germany and inshallah he will have it easy here ya rab. thank you for being with me.
I will tell you how it will end or inshallah how all will begin
bye

[attia_lover]

good luck with everything dina

i hope that all your problems will be solved....

[dina]

thank you so much attia_lover

[attia_lover]

you're welcome

[eMaRaTyA 4eVeR]

lsn u need to have a talk with ur dad and try to persuade him to agree with u

[Emily]

i wish u all the best

hi dina..any news ? (are you rimo?btw?) i hope ur situation is better